Let me clarify something right at the beginning.
I’m not rude.
I’m not mysterious.
I’m not secretly judging you.
I’m just… not asking you where you’re from within the first 30 seconds of meeting you.
I know. Shocking behaviour. Someone call society.
Because apparently, when you meet a new person, there is an unwritten syllabus:
Where are you from?
What do you do?
Are you married?
How many kids?
Salary? (internally calculated anyway)
And I’m standing there like…
“Hi. You’re a human. I’m a human. Let’s just… exist?”
People who know me are already smiling here.
Because they’ve seen this live.
My Signature Move: Full Conversation… Zero Interrogation 😄
Here’s the funny part.
I’m actually very easy to talk to.
I can casually sit with you and have a full 10–15 minute conversation:
We’ll laugh
We’ll share thoughts
We’ll talk about life, feelings, random things
And then we’ll part ways…
And I still won’t know:
Where you’re from
What you do
Any “basic details”
And honestly?
I’m completely okay with that.
Some of you might be reading this and thinking,
“Wait… that’s true. She’s spoken to me so much… but she has never asked anything personal.”
Exactly 😄
Long-Term Connections… Minimal Data 😄
This is my favourite part.
I actually have people who are very close to my heart.
We’ve had:
Deep conversations
Meaningful moments
Genuine connection over time
And yet…
I know almost nothing about their personal life.
Sometimes just their name.
That’s it.
No background story. No details. No labels.
And still… the connection feels complete.
Because for me, connection was never about information.
It was always about energy.
My Brain Doesn’t Collect People Data Like Pokémon
See, most people meet someone and immediately start collecting information.
Name. Job. Background. LinkedIn potential.
My brain?
It’s like:
“Do we need this information right now?”
“No?”
“Cool. Let’s not store it.”
Minimal storage. No unnecessary downloads. No background apps running.
I don’t relate to you through your profile.
I relate to you through your presence.
The Awkward Moments (You’ve Seen This 😄)
People who know me have definitely witnessed this:
Someone asks:
“So what do you think about this issue?”
Me:
“I actually don’t even know what you’re talking about.”
Them:
“How?? It’s everywhere!”
Me:
“Oh really… I had no idea.”
Them:
“It’s all over social media! Just open your feed—it’s there!”
Me:
“Ahh… looks like even my social media is mindful then 😄”
Them:
“Wait… you didn’t hear about them?”
Me:
“No.”
Them:
“You should know these things yaar…”
Me:
“Hmm… I didn’t feel like checking.”
At that point, it hits them—
I’m not just avoiding gossip… I’m not even updated enough to join it.
And that’s usually when they stop trying 😄
The Real Problem: I Don’t Do ‘Extra’
I don’t involve myself in:
Politics
Gossip
PR networking drama
Who said what about whom
Basically… I don’t subscribe to the daily soap opera of life.
People are like,
“How do you not get involved???”
And I’m like,
“How do you have the energy TO get involved???”
Some days I’m just trying to keep my plants alive and my toddler fed. Let’s be realistic.
“But It’s Strange…”
Ah yes. The word.
“Strange.”
Apparently, if you don’t:
Dig into people’s personal lives
Keep track of social updates
Form opinions about everyone
…you are considered unusual.
But the people who really know me?
They don’t find it strange.
They’ll say,
“Yeah… that’s exactly her.”
Plot Twist: This Is Exactly Why I Do What I Do
Now here’s the part where everything suddenly makes sense.
I’m a meditation trainer.
Of course I don’t overload my mind with unnecessary input.
My whole work is about:
Observing the mind
Reducing noise
Becoming aware
Protecting energy
Imagine if I was out there collecting everyone’s life details…
And then sitting for meditation like,
“Why is my mind replaying people’s resumes???”
No thank you.
My Formula Is Very Simple
Less input → Less mental clutter
Less clutter → Less emotional weight
Less weight → More peace
It’s not philosophy.
It’s basic mental housekeeping.
Because every piece of unnecessary information we take in…
doesn’t just sit quietly.
It becomes:
Thought
Judgment
Comparison
Opinion
Noise
And suddenly your mind is like peak-hour traffic… no signal, no movement, only honking.
I’m Not Detached… I’m Intentional
If I ask you what you do, trust me—it’s not small talk.
It means:
“I actually need this information.”
I don’t ask out of habit.
I ask out of purpose.
And if I don’t ask?
It just means…
I’m already okay with the connection as it is.
No extra data required.
Final Thought (Before You Overthink Me 😄)
Maybe I don’t fit into the usual social template.
Maybe I don’t follow the expected script.
But I’ve realized something very important:
Not everyone is here to collect people.
Some of us are here to understand ourselves.
And in a world full of noise,
choosing silence…
isn’t strange.
It’s powerful.
And to everyone who knows me and just smiled reading this—
yes… this is exactly me.
Fully talking. Fully present.
Just… without the questionnaire 😄
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